The Village Plan Part II; One friend, One day of the Week
You’ve heard it before: “It takes a village to raise a child.” But in real life? That village doesn’t always show up the way a new mom needs it to. Between the sleepless nights, healing bodies, and emotional rollercoasters, postpartum can feel isolating — even when you’re technically “not alone.” The truth is, many people want to help… but they don’t know how. That’s where The Village Plan comes in. This is a way to love a new mom through action — one small, intentional day at a time.
7/16/20252 min read
🌿 What is the Village Plan?
The Village Plan is a simple, loving system where friends show up for a postpartum mom throughout the week — not randomly, not just once, but with intention.
Here’s the idea:
One friend = one day of the week
Each person checks in the night before their day to ask:
“What would be most helpful for you tomorrow?”Then they show up in a small, practical way — folding laundry, bringing a snack, holding the baby, or just sitting with her.
It’s structure with soul.
It’s a plan that makes support actually happen.
🤎 Why It Matters
New moms are often overwhelmed but don’t want to ask for help — or don’t even know what they need. Friends want to help, but aren’t sure how.
The Village Plan:
Gives moms permission to receive
Gives friends permission to act
Turns “Let me know if you need anything” into real, daily care
This isn’t about grand gestures. It’s about tiny ones — done consistently, with love.
✨ How to Build a Village Plan
You can do this in a group text, a Notes app, or using the free printable below!
Step 1: Gather the Village
Ask 5–7 close friends or family members who are genuinely eager to help.
Step 2: Assign Days
Each person picks a day of the week where they’ll be the “on call” support.
Step 3: Check In the Night Before
Text the mom something like:
“Hey love — I’m your village tomorrow. What would feel good?”
Step 4: Show Up Gently
Some days, it’ll be folding towels.
Some days, it might just be a latte drop-off and a hug.
Both count.
📎 Download the Free Village Plan Printable
Want a beautifully designed version of this you can print or share with your group?
👉 Download The Village Plan Chart
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🛒 Postpartum Village Favorites
These simple, thoughtful gifts are perfect for showing up during your Village Plan visits — or surprising a new mama when she needs a little lift:
Body Armor Drinks – Hydrating + great for breastfeeding moms
Munchkin Milkmakers Lactation Cookie Bites – Oatmeal chocolate chip, individually packed, and mom-approved
Simple Modern 40 oz Trek Tumbler – Cup-holder friendly, straw lid, and says “Momma” — basically an emotional support water bottle
Benevolence LA Mama Necklace – A dainty gold necklace that says “Mama” — perfect for new moms, sisters, or grandmas
💛 Final Thoughts
The Village Plan isn’t just a chart, It’s a love language.
It’s how we build connection, reduce isolation, and remind a new mom she’s held — even when her world feels wobbly.
So gather the group. Make the plan. And show up, even if it’s just with a warm coffee and a kind word.
She won’t forget it.
Xoxo Emily
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