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🍁 Toddler Leaf Exchange: A Fall Friendship Activity

Fall is filled with crunchy leaves, cozy days, and endless opportunities for little ones to explore the outdoors. One sweet and simple way to celebrate the season is with a Toddler Leaf Exchange — a mail-based activity where toddlers send and receive special leaves with friends.

Emily McFarlin

9/4/20251 min read

Instead of trying to collect and ship multiple leaves, this version is simple:
👉 Your toddler mails one special leaf to a friend.
👉 That friend keeps the leaf, mails one back in return, and then chooses a new friend to send their own leaf to.

It’s like happy mail, but with nature’s treasures.

How the Leaf Exchange Works

1. Go on a Leaf Hunt 🍂
Take your toddler outside and let them search for a leaf that feels “special” — whether it’s big, bright, or just their favorite.

2. Mail It to a Friend 💌
Slip the leaf between cardstock or wax paper to protect it during mailing. Place it in an envelope, and let your toddler add stickers, crayon scribbles, or a short note.

3. The Friend’s Turn ✨
When a toddler receives a leaf:

  • They keep the leaf as a keepsake.

  • They pick a leaf from their own yard to mail back as a thank-you.

  • Then, they choose a new friend to send a leaf to, keeping the chain going.

4. Keep the Tradition Going
Every child gets the joy of sending, receiving, and connecting through nature.

Why Toddlers Love It

  • Receiving mail feels magical ✨

  • They get to share something from their world

  • Builds early lessons in kindness, gratitude, and connection

  • Encourages time outside in every season

Mom Tips 💛

  • Press the leaf between heavy books for a day before mailing to keep it flat.

  • Add a note: “This leaf came from our backyard maple tree. 🍁”

  • Snap a picture: Take a quick photo before mailing so you can remember your toddler’s first exchange.

  • Expect smiles: Toddlers light up when they open a letter made just for them.

A Cozy Keepsake

By the end of fall, your toddler may have a small collection of leaves from different friends — each one telling its own story. It’s a beautiful reminder that even the simplest gestures can bring joy and connection.

Start your own toddler leaf exchange this season, and watch the magic unfold one envelope at a time.